A couple of years ago, a Bible study I attended discussed this very thing. I am very nonconfrontational, and I am the last person to start a debate. I am learning to lean into that, but also learning to be more bold in my faith. Little matters like the ones you discussed will fly over my head, but I do need to be bold when discussing the truth found in the Bible (good and bad). It's important to understand how to accept one another without leading others astray. (: