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Christian Dating Apps Aren’t Just A Meme
How I met my Husband
By Grace K. Bianco
In honor of it being the one month anniversary of being married. I figured I would tell our love story.
I was nineteen when I met my twenty-five year old dream guy.
I had been on dating apps off and on for a little under a year. I had tried Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, and Christian Dating for Free. I had Christian Mingle for about twenty seconds. I even got Tinder for a whole five seconds before I thought, “Hm, I don’t think Tinder is the app I am really in need of here.”
I knew my end goal was to get married, and I held my ground as I talked to MANY guys online. I became extremely picky, and my standards only seemed to skyrocket.
My bio always started with, “Hi, I am Grace! First off, I am Christian. God comes first. So, I am waiting till marriage.” I would bluntly ask guys about their feelings towards abstinence. Why waste time?? I was on the hunt for the guy God intended for me to marry.
I became extremely unbothered by ghosting. I ghosted and got ghosted. Either way, I shrugged it off telling my family, “You know I wasn’t that confident in him anyways.”
I got off of dating apps for a couple of months. One night, I cried to my dad, “I am so…