Even though, I am younger and married now. I feel for you so much. Online dating as a 18/19 year old was rough in its own ways. I had guys mad as hornet, because I wanted to wait till marriage. (I made it clear in my bio.) I never asked anyone to wait for me. I just made it clear that I wasn't the girl for that. You wouldn't believe the comments that I got. I felt like a sex toy a lot of the time. I would be having a nice conversation with a guy and all of the sudden, I'd get, "So, how far would you be willing to go?" UMMM, how about we go on a date and get to know each other first? The block button was my best friend. I am sorry that you have been made to feel like an object in other ways too.