Great insight! I wouldn’t really categorize my husband as any of the major red flags, but I do worry over him. So many men feel like they have to suppress all of their feelings, and I always try to make sure my husband isn’t doing that. I don’t want him to suppress so much that he’ll explode. I believe compassion is one of the greatest characteristics to have in a marriage. I have anxiety. I need compassion from my husband. My husband needs compassion when he can’t figure out how exactly to communicate his feelings. I hope more people can realize when a negative characteristic is toxic and when a negative characteristic just needs patience and compassion to overcome it!