I am a huge oversharer. My readers know A LOT about me. However, one clear boundary I have is to be extremely careful about putting anyone I know in a negative light. I wrote a memoir that mentioned a lot of people from my past. Every single name was changed. My editor taught me the importance of sharing my own thoughts and never speaking for what someone else may have felt. I come across pretty friendless on Medium lol, because I rarely write about anyone other than myself and my husband haha.