I Don’t Have To Explain Myself
I’d rather save my breath.
I talk a lot. It’s one of the many reasons why I became a writer. I always have plenty to say… So, why not write it all down?
Now, that my writing audience has grown, and my Twitter page is growing too. I am constantly talking to someone online.
Now, that I am more settled and have made more friends in TN, there is almost always someone to talk to.
On top of that, I am married. Our job as husband and wife is to talk and listen to each other all of the time.
With all the talking that I do, I have become more and more selective on what I use my voice for.
I have always been pretty defensive and an over explainer, but I am slowly learning how unnecessary that usually is.
I can just say no.
Whenever I didn’t want to do something, I thought that I needed the perfect excuse and perfect wording to say no.
Even up until just a few months ago, I would call my parents and ask them what I should say to get out of certain situations. Both of my parents would be on speaker…
