I have a dark(ish) past. I went through a lot, because my parents adopted so many children. Then, I got really depressed in high school. I was pretty much bipolar back then. My husband has made the comment, "You are still bipolar," and it hurt me a lot. He didn't mean for it to be offensive, but it hit me hard. There was a time in my life that I wanted to die, and I don't feel like that at all now. So, to say I do means that I never worked hard to get to where I am today. My husband is a great listener, but we are still learning how to navigate/communicate through my current mental issues and even my past ones haha. We are always learning, but I know that he is trying. 💕