I have been body shamed countless times for being “too” thin. I refuse to let those comments get in the way of my confidence and health. I eat more than enough, and I am happy.

I have been shamed for being a Christian. People label me as judgmental before they even get to know me. Assumptions about my faith are made, and most are beyond false. My faith has kept me alive and happy.

I have been shamed for dropping out of college. I didn’t drop out because I wasn’t smart enough. I dropped out to follow my passions. I became a full-time nanny. Now, I am a housewife and writer. I was told I was wasting my brain more than once. But I am happy. I’d go back and do it all again.

People’s shame doesn’t affect me. I remember their words, but I don’t let them define me. I hurt for others that can’t do that as easily. I strive to be as empathetic as possible. I refuse to be someone who shames another. Your article was an important message. I hope more people learn to feel for others than put them down. 💕