I have never been down this road. So, I also don't want to offend anyone, but I always wondered about this too.

I used to struggle with anger. I'd hate to introduce myself as, "I am Grace, and I am hot-tempered," when I am not anymore. If some prefer that label, that is totally fine. But I also understand your point in wanting to use different terminology. We all have our pasts. Not everyone has to be permanently defected by them. 💚