I was with a guy for four years that always seemed to love me more. I was happy for a while, but things did take a turn for the worse the last two years. He changed so much, and we both just weren't as good for each other. He would have never left. He begged for me to come back when I decided to end it.

Now, I am married to another great man. I believe we love each other equally. I believe we pursued each other equally. This is the love I have always wanted and needed. That advice is just terrible.