It is so sickening how badly the modeling and dancing industry treat girls. How can one sleep at night knowing they told young girls to not eat???

I don't have any great advice, because I am neither a mom nor someone that struggled with an eating disorder. But I know what it is like to be the anxious child. I think you being open and honest with your daughter is really great. You are doing all you can. Being there for her is much bigger and better than you realize. There were times growing up that I just wanted to be taken seriously. I know that your daughter appreciates you, and I am sure she's happy you aren't forcing her to dance or quit.