Since I waited till marriage to have sex, I was a little upfront. I made it clear in my online dating profiles, and I would personally tell a guy who was interested in talking to me. It was more of me setting clear boundaries. However, if they asked how far I was willing to go before going on a date or even too early on in the relationship, I would stop talking to them immediately. To me, that was a good sign that waiting may be too difficult for them if they were so caught up in what they COULD get from me. So, I obviously do not talk about preferences early on. 😂 However, since I was upfront in some ways, I can see both sides. 🤷‍♀️