That is so dumb of someone to say. Soooo many spouses have to travel for work that doesn't mean they immediately get the label of cheater. Before my husband got a permanent job in TN, he traveled a lot for months at a time. Sometimes, I could go with him and other times I couldn't. I would have been so mad if someone tried to put that dumb thought in my head. He also worked 12 hour shifts and sometimes only got one day off. He didn't have time the time or energy to cheat either lol.