THIS!!
My husband is obsessed with chess. I don’t mind that he plays a lot, but he can’t talk and play at the same time. There have been a few times I have gotten frustrated. We have been talking lately about making more of an effort to go on dates, and spend actual quality time together. It’s hard to break habits. I have so many I am working on myself. Just keep being open about it with him. If change isn’t made, you need to seriously put your foot down.