This actually helped me breakup with my ex of almost four years. I wasn't close to wanting to cheat or anything like that. But the thought of being with someone else didn't scare me like it always had. I knew that the relationship I was in wasn't the one God wanted me to be in forever. I met my husband almost exactly a year after my breakup. In my situation, I did a lot of grieving during my relationship. When I got out, I felt so much lighter and ready for the one God actually had in mind for me.