What an awful thing to ask!! I think we have come along from the way miscarriages were once looked at. We have a way to go, but after two miscarriages with two different doctors' offices, I was never told anything like this.

I lost two. I never had a feeling about whether they were a boy or a girl. So, I decided not to name them, but Jesus can! I can't wait to meet those babies one day. 🤍

Thanks for writing about Cody! You aren't alone in your grief. 🤍