Wow, that's intense. I wonder if one of your subscriptions or someone online gave out some of your information. My sister-in-law has had three debit cards stolen in the past year. She believes one of the sites that she buys off of might have given some of her info out.

As for crazy neighbor, she sounds like she needs some kind of mental intervention. You can't be 100% right in the head to act like that to someone you hardly know.