Yesss!!!! I couldn't agree with you more.
If something I read upsets me, I am just going to click off of it immediately. If I am still upset, my husband gets to listen to me to rant haha. BUT I will not go after the writer. That accomplishes nothing.
My mission on here is to be a nice face on Medium, and I will not ruin that. Even if I receive a questionable comment, I do my best to be kind back. I will not give the power of slandering my reputation to another writer over a little disagreement. I want to be kind to everyone (even my haters haha).